71th Blog - "DO" - What you love to Do.

"DO" - What you love to DO – Everyone Knowing this, but how many did it?

"Success comes in a lot of ways, but it doesn't come with money and it doesn't come with fame. It comes from having a meaning in your life, doing what you love and being passionate about you do. That's having a life of success - When you have the ability to do what you love, love what you do and have the ability to impact the people. That's having a life of success. That's what having a life of meaning is". - Tim 

How you look you about your life, What is actually important for an individual and why that is so important to be. 

Is It important what other people think about you.??
Is It important that you have to look good for other people.??
Is It important that, people think you’re a nice person.??
Is It important to get other people approval on your ideas.??

If your answer for all the question is “Yes”, then you are probably wrong and you are surviving in a RAT-RACE Life, it might be a time to make change in You.
Why....?

Why? It is a very good question?

Because it’s important that you can live with the Freedom of being Yourself, no matter what other people think, no matter how other people judge, no matter what and how other people feel about it. Is it hard? Yes! It’s hard to start changing Yourself and live without the approval or opinion of others, as we are so used to live that way and our environment tells us to live that way.  

Is it good for you to live that way?

No, its not. As it’s much more important for you to be happy with whatever you’re doing or whatever you like to do. Or even whatever you like to wear as clothes or hairstyles. Because if you think about it, when you have an idea and you ask someone or several people about their opinion probably most of the time you get only negative response. Will you still carry on with your idea and develop it? Most of the people will say No, not for now. So, did it really make you happy when you called of your idea or plan? You’ll probably regret later, maybe years later, that you never did it or didn’t carry on with it. And that’s why it’s important that we start to live in of our-self, with our own ideas and plans, what we like and what we do or what we want to do, no matter what other people say or think about it!

Believe me, For many years it was very important what other people, or even your family would say or think about your ideas or your way of living. Years later when you made the change to not listen anymore to other people’s opinions or judgments and just do what you wanted to do and how you wanted to live your life, it made you so much happier!

Is it still always easy for you?

No, it’s not always easy, but when you hold on to your believes, to your ideas and just move on with it, it finally makes you realize that you're happy for moving on with it, otherwise you'd have missed out on a lot.

The funny thing is also, when “they” see and realize that you do your own thing even though they told you to do different. after a while, they just accept. As they can’t “touch” or “hit” you anymore and, most important, not “control” you anymore. Because that’s what it really is. When you let other people decide what you do or how to live your life. They are in control of Your Life, not You! And that’s not the way how it should be. You have the right on your own Life, how to live it, what to do, what to wear, how to look like etc. And if people really Love you, then they will Love you for who you really are .

Don’t change yourself because others like to see you that way, as it’s not you. So, go out and live your Own Life!

Because - It is always better to live your own life imperfectly then to imitate someone else perfectly. -- Eat, Pray, Love By Elizabeth Gilbert.

And remember to Live in the Now, Let don't go in the Past and don’t worry about the Future.

Regards

Dhitendra

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