Sunday, 30 June 2013

79th Blog - A Short Story - "Who Knows who will meet you in what form and on which path in life"


 
 "It's a result of a Video"

"There's nothing great exercise for a heart that reached down and help the people to lift up."
It was the month of January and was an extreme cold in Delhi. In that Icy evening of Delhi, keeping his hands in his coats pocket, alongside the pavement of a two-lane road he was walking towards his home. The cold was enough to make feel her presence and it was enough to not let allow the people to come out from their warm place and warm dresses. But there are other things he need to think and to care about. 
 
On his way to his home, the only he's thinking about the Word is “Recession”, the word that sacked out the masses from their earnings. Many people got unemployed. Some of them move to their hometowns, Some of them was not able to bear that happening and run into with death. Some of them was from fine background and thus they involved in their family business. But most of them are still in this city, In the hope, Some fine day everything in near future will be great. And he was one of them. He was never looking for a quit. Ever since he pink-slipped from his job, he'd been unemployed with a very little earnings with to and fro jobs. But when painful day hits you, it hits like an atmospheric phenomenon, when the poor usually get more poor. And as the chillness of winter ragged on, the chill had finally hit his home also.

It was late in evening, just about to a night thus the road was alone. Not very many people had a reason to be on it, unless they were leaving. He was thinking most of his friends that had already left this country to make an earning in Dollars or in Pounds. They had families to feed and dreams to fulfill. He also had. But he decided to stayed on. After all, this was the place where his father and mother born and grew, this is the place where he buried them. It is the same place where he was born, where he had grown up and he knew the city very well, he knew this country very well. Then how can he left his motherland. Because in his own belief, Serving people of our own motherland is the best service. He could go down here on every road like a dazzled, and tell you what was on either side.

Lost in his own thoughts, he was walking alone on that lonely road. While on the other side of road he almost didn't able to see that old lady, who is standing on the other side of the road with her car. But even in the high darkness of evening, with the help of road-lights, he could see and realize that she need someone's help. So he crossed the road and walked to her. At the time he approached to her, due to his poor dresses, he look like as highway robber. 
 
Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. 
 
Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe? He's here to steal her precious things? Various thoughts rolled through her mind in an instant. He looked poor and hungry, He looks like a highway robber or criminal. Or he is here to help her.

He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill that only fear can put in you. 
 
“I think you're in trouble. Can I help you Ma'am?”. He asked.

She was very frightened. She truly need a help. She can believe on him due to his helping question or she still can be doubt on him due to his abominable appearance. 
 
“Please don't be in trouble. I'm here to help you Ma'am”. He tried to make that old lady a believe about his good being. “And My name is Aakash”. He introduced himself.

“Yes I need a help. My car has a puncture.” She reacted by pointing towards punctured tire of her car.

“Oh!, don't be panic, I can fix it. by the time, why don't you wait in the car where it's warm.” He replied with a more serving nature.

All she had a trouble was due to a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he was not professional, his hands got too much dirty and injured too. After changing the car's tire, he turned towards the window of car.

“It's all done Ma'am”.

She stepped out from her car and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from that place in Delhi and was only returning from her friend's home. She told him, she couldn't have enough words to thank him for coming to help her. He just smiled.

She asked him how much she has to pay for this. Lucre of being wealthy is that you need not to worry about money. Any amount would have been alright with her. She had already imagined all the awful things that could have happened if he had not stopped to help her. 
 
He never thought twice about the money. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way. He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance that they needed, and he added - “and think of me". 
 
He waited there until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day for him, but he felt good in that late evening when he headed for home.

A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take some rest before she made the last round of her journey to home. It was a dirty looking restaurant, not so good.

The restaurant waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed that the waitress was nearly seven months pregnant, but she never let the stress and strain and aches to change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little with her own body could be so helpful to a stranger. Then she remembered him, the person who helped her when she needed the most. 
 
She asked for bill after finishing her meal. The bill was of one-hundred fifty rupees somehow. She placed a five-hundred note to pay the bill. when the waitress went to get her change from a five hundred rupees, the lady slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. She wondered where the lady gone without picking her money. Then she noticed something written on a napkin that was placed under the plate. She raised that piece of napkin and started to read, there were tears rolling down from her eyes, when she read what the lady wrote. It said, "You don't owe me a thing, you don't need to be in debt for anything. I've been there too. Someone once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here's what you have to do is very simple. Don't let this trust and love ends with you. Keep moving on, with love in heart for everyone. When someone who needs help, just give your assistance.” And then she raised the five thousand rupees that the lady left for her under the same plate.

It was already a very late evening. No one is present in the restaurant and due to the chilled whether outside it also seems no one is going to come at this place now. There were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, gadgets to clean, things to make set up. But she can made it through tomorrow.

That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could she have known how much she and her husband needed this money? With the baby due after two month, it was going to be hard. She knew how worried her husband was from last few months. And in night, as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, "Someday everything is going to be alright, I love you Aakash."

"If you give a little love, you can get a little love of your own."
   
"I believe the world is a very big family and we all need to help each other." - Jet Li


Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)

Saturday, 29 June 2013

78th Blog - "Be the driver of your own life"

Over the past few months, I had gone through very situation, sometime tough, sometime very easy but most of the time it was tough and merely the painful too. The things that I thought not to be happen, just come about and one very fine day I come to conclude and have to accept it again that life is never easy, it never be. then how it is and the answer comes out “it is just not supposed to be in the way you think”. That is a simple answer for everyone and for every single human.

One of my close friend once said -"cry as long as you want now, and then you will forget about it." It made sense.

Another friend once said- "Stay in your hiding place as long as you want, but remember there are people who are willing to drag you out, they are still waiting for you outside. Don't make them wait for too long." and It too made sense.

But what I thought is “Never cry over the same problem twice, nor keep your eyes wet for so long that you fail to see the happy days coming again.” Somehow, how long one wishes to stay in that style decides how well he will cope up with it.

Every one has own happenings. its natural and alas have to Accept it!

There comes many time in our life when we're trapped in too many dramas of life. As in my earlier blogs I write out that “We're in this universe like a Puppet, Have to play only our Part, On a stage that was already designed and Have to act, Like it is already determined”. And it is very true someday there comes a point in life, where all the senseless drama exhausts you, the negativity drains the last drop of strength from your contempt soul and you are left with a thousand questions which seem to have no answer. The big stability of the routine pulls you down and you feel like running away from this world, hiding yourself in a secluded corner, away from friends, away from your families, away from your loved ones, away from office, away from the worries, more probably away from yourself own. You do not know what went wrong, you don't even know how to bring things back on path. In worse cases, you don't even know if there is anything wrong at all. You just feel alone, sad and helpless. Your life feels out of control and that frustrates you more than anything. It haunts you more than all wounds. It brings you down in all the way of life and tears you apart.

Everyone has problems, your ability to deal with them decides your fate. It is okay to be low at times, it is okay to give yourself some privacy and to ponder about the mess around. It is okay to even curse and cry. but then make sure to get over it completely, and then return stronger.

But the good thing about life is every one has to face it all- sometimes loneliness, sometimes sadness, sometimes depression, sometimes failure. and then gradually happiness follows. No one can be exactly in same mood or phase throughout the life.

There are people around, who try to help you, but you are so obsessed about your own dilemmas that you tend to ignore them, or in worse cases even shut yourself away from them. you end up hurting the ones who are closest to you, only to regret that later. There are always some people who need you. not the sad or depressed you've, but the blessed. Don't misjudge or ignore them. When you can't deal with things alone, then don't lock yourself in a room, where no one can come to bring you out.

Life is good. Despite worst situations, good people exist and they care for your well being. Keep yourself up, and treat them well. They are the people, God has sent as a link to the good days. they help you to look out for small packets of happiness and soon you will collect a bag full of them.

Trust on those people for your own good.

If you run away from the situations. they will come running behind you. Stop that! Decide how you are going to deal with them. Think and then Act. once you decide to take control over your own life, things will automatically fall in place.

You are never alone, neither are you the only person having problems in life. In-fact you are lucky to have the power to steer your life in any direction that you want. Be the driver of your own life, and you will never be alone to travel on the road.

You and only you are the creator of your own destiny”
 
 
 
 
 
Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)

77th Blog - "Changes starts when we're ready to make start"

There might be surly a sound relation between your mind, choice, thought, the way, actions and your life. your mind is able to understand and can push to make the choice. Your choice having the ability to push over the thought. Your thought and choice co-incidentally will push you to make the way to follow and grow-up. Your way is able to push to attempt an action. While your actions naturally be able to push your life ahead. While many of people spending their lives by looking around all that have. But too many people spend their lives looking in the rear view mirror, regretting what could have been. I'll say to stop and look around at all what you've. Let's start and continue a journey by looking only ahead to all the wonderful possibilities that are waiting for you in future. Continue on your journey by looking only ahead to all the wonderful possibilities that are in front of you."

Your mind will push your thoughts, your thoughts will push your actions, while your actions will surly push your life."

I listened many people several time with a saying – I didn't like this and that, I got mad by looking continue these wrong happening, I want to look something good now, the society where we lives bad in every manner; but how many of us are eager to make these changes let be happen, let it be a reality so that at least we'll snap our generation a good and luminous tomorrow and society. Everyone wants to make a change that's true but no one wants to make a start, is a more bitter truth. We just want to live in our Box-packed house and watch to come someone in front to make those changes. But it need to remember always “NOBODY” will change the world for us unless and until we do it ourselves. Everyone is expecting to change the world, No one trying to change themselves, We have to accept responsibility & never expect things to happen, We need to struggle with them and make them happen, we need to be more strong against every wrong, and to be come with a more will-power, then only we're able to create a good and better society.

Its your Attitude, Passion, Dream, Motivation, Ambition and the Factor that matters. Its never matter, Where and How you are in this world, If you decided something to do, something deep from your heart, something that lighted every moment, only then you can do it, It is way of thought that matters, It is the way you start that matters, nothing else.

"You can not change your future, but you can change your habits, and surly your habits will change your future" ---------- A.P.J. Abdul Kalam

Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)

Friday, 28 June 2013

76th Blog - "Life is a prison when you are in love alone"


It does not matter now, he thought. Nothing does. He will close his eyes and everything will disappear. The world. The tears. The pain. That was what he hoped for, that was what he believed in, that was what he had never tried before. Because if he tried and it didn’t work, he would have nothing left to have faith in. Because if he closed his eyes and the pain were still there, he would be broken. he would be destroyed, Ruined, Reduced and much more Crippled.

But today he was ready to take that risk. Today he wanted to stick to that little hope that everything might be if not fine, but at least okay. Today he wanted to close his eyes. So what if there was a good chance that he might be knocked down and broken into pieces. How did it matter if nobody cared? How did it matter if even he did not care?

Suddenly he noticed her picture on the table. It was an old one and one of the beautiful one. he realized that he didn’t remember when it had been taken. Five years ago? Six? Maybe more old. He didn’t know anymore. he didn’t care anymore. he didn’t want to know. Should he close the eyes now, he wondered. Let himself be forced to the world of illusions, to the world where he remembered the pictures, the dates. Where he actually didn’t need pictures to look into her eyes. Where he just did not need any pictures. Because She and only she is there.

He wanted to close his eyes. he really did. he hoped to see her in the world of his fantasies. he wanted to ask so many questions. he wanted to talk. he wanted to stay silent. he wanted to feel her presence. To feel her love. To feel her. To be with her. he wanted to stay there. he wanted to close his eyes and never open them. No, he didn’t want to die. he only wanted to close his eyes, to feel her presence, to feel himself in her arms, to feel her warm embrace and love. he wanted to dream. To hope. To live with her.

It was her birthday today. It was her first birthday after that car accident. It was her first birthday after the car accident that had changed their lives. It was her first birthday after the car accident that had killed her. It was the first birthday. Damn it! He thought. It is the first birthday when she is not with her to cut the cake. It was the first birthday when she was not with him to enjoy the day.

He didn't ask “why” anymore. The time of questions had long passed. he did not cry anymore. Not in the day at least. And he did not smile anymore. All he wanted was one simple thing – to close his eyes, to disappear, to vanish. All he wanted was to live, was to live only with her.

Should I close the eyes? he asked. Silence. In an utter silence. Of course, who would have going to replied for his own soul question? 
 
He was all alone. Wrapped by the blanket of loneliness. Stuck in the darkness of grief. Losing herself in an agony of silence. He was alone. And She was alone too, Somewhere. Maybe in another world, people says that exist afterlife. Maybe in the same one. 
 
Love need not to end like this one, he thought. At-least not in this way. But She was not there. he knew that. he just was not ready to accept that truth. 
 
He took a deep breath and closed his eyes. A moment later he's smiling. He sat on the bench under an old oak tree. In his imagination he sat down next to her. he didn’t say a word. In his imagination neither did she speaks a single word. But at that moment of life did they exactly need some words to say ?? No they didn’t need words. They needed Just each other. And all they had to do was to close their eyes at the exact same time. And they did.


Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)

Thursday, 27 June 2013

75Th Blog - “A Thousand Splendid Suns" By Khaled Hosseini

I'm always eager to find out and read those books, that relates with Social causes and yet described and narrated in a typical fable style. In the case when the Author is already critically acclaimed across the globe, It must be essential to read those books to find out the content that works as smash hit from the perspective of Author. 
 
Often most of writer completed their books in a very short span of time, apart someone takes an year sometime more than an year to complete a single book. At a single time they only engaged with a single book, results in world-wide plaudits. And it is very good to read an author, whose books was already critically acclaimed and read by masses.

After completing “The Kite Runner” By Mr. Khaleed, I was waiting for his next book to release. “The Kite Runner” comes in a category of few books, that capture and portray the relations. It is one of the beautiful crafted novel and unforgettable, heartbreaking story of the unlikely friendship between a wealthy boy and the son of his father's servant. Since this book is already so popular that need not any description.

When I come to the book “A Thousand Splendid Suns”, as per my perspective this book is good but not good as “The Kite Runner”. While as per remarks of many good reviewer world-wide, this is better than what the Author portrait in his last work. I purchased this book after reading the summary that was on back cover page. But the story was totally different from that. Sometime reader feel bore due to very wide unnecessary description in the book.

This book is divided into four parts, with a focus on Mariam in the first part, continuing Laila in the second and fourth, and the relationship between the two women in the third part.

A Thousand Splendid Suns is set in Afghanistan from the early 1960s to the early 2000s. It is the story of poor, uneducated women Mariam who have to endure the hardships of life. The story begins with an abusive sentence “She was five years old when she heard the word HARAMI”, “HARAMI” that normally used to call for street people. This novel narrates the horrors and terrors that a lot of women have gone through during certain period in Afghanistan, the war torn country, and the narration through the lives of two woman Mariam and Laila. Going through All kinds of Physical abuse of hitting, kicking and slapping, brutal beating, Struggling the cruel extremely sadistic Rasheed, And suffering all kinds of violence and subjected to his shifting mood and volatile temper. Witnessing the ugliness of war, the fate of loved ones, grieving for lost lives. The end of the novel give some hope in its last scene after all the violent accidents, with Laila's pregnancy, Kabul rebuilding, and a loving family reunion. The novel centers around the friendship between Mariam and Laila.

A Thousand Splendid Suns is at once a remarkable chronicle of three decades of Afghan history and a deeply moving account of family and friendship. It is a striking, heart-wrenching novel of an unforgiving time, an unlikely friendship, and an indestructible love, a stunning accomplishment. A Thousand Splendid Suns is a breathtaking story set against the volatile events of Afghanistan's last thirty years, from the Soviet invasion to the reign of the Taliban to post-Taliban rebuilding, that puts the violence, fear, hope and faith of this country in intimate, human terms. It is a tale of two generations of characters brought jarringly together by the tragic sweep of war, where personal lives, the struggle to survive, raise a family, find happiness, are inextricable from the history playing out around them.

This book is not good as “The Kite Runner” but still is a good read.


Regards
Dhitendra
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74th Blog - “The Kite Runner" By Khaled Hosseini


The Kite Runner” is the first novel by Mr. Khaled published in year 2003 by River head books. Since the book was released in year 2003. I can say It was now a long time when I completed this book.

   Since this was the first book of Author, besides the polished work he done in this book is par excellence. I can say In his debut novel, The Kite Runner, Khaled Hosseini accomplishes what very few contemporary novelists are able to do. He manages to provide an educational and eye-opening account of a country's political disturbance – in this case, Afghanistan – while also developing characters whose heartbreaking struggles and emotional victories vibrate with readers long after the last page has been turned over. And he does this on his first try. This book is mostly revolving around the social causes of Afghanistan and the war that is in this country daily-schedule. For a good reader One of favorite things in literature is learning. If S(he) learn from a book, S(he) consider it valuable. Bite-sized foreign languages lessons will reinforce a book's merit and this author surly taught something about the history, language, and geography of Afghanistan.

It is a haunting and sorrowful story of the friendship between a wealthy boy and the son of his father's servant, The Kite Runner is a beautifully crafted novel set in a country that is in the process of being destroyed. It is about the power of reading, the price of betrayal, and the possibility of redemption; and an exploration of the power of fathers over sons—their love, their sacrifices and their lives.

A sweeping story of family, love, and friendship told against the devastating backdrop of the history of Afghanistan over the last thirty years, The Kite Runner is an unusual and powerful novel that has become a beloved, one-of-a-kind classic.
A novel set mostly in Afghanistan. The introverted and insecure afghan narrator, Amir, grows up in Afghanistan in the closing years of the monarchy and the first years of the short-lived republic. His best and most faithful friend, Hassan, is the son of a servant. Amir feels he betrays Hassan by not coming to his aid when Hassan is set on by bullies and furthermore forces Hassan and his father Ali to leave his father´s service. Amir´s relatively privileged life in Kabul comes to an end when the communist regime comes to power and his extrovert father, Baba emigrates with him to the U.S. There Amir meets his future afghan wife and marries her. Amir's father dies in the U.S. and Amir receives a letter from his father´s most trusted business partner and, for a time, Amir's surrogate father, which makes Amir return, alone, to a Taliban dominated Afghanistan in search of the truth about himself and his family, and finally, a sort of redemption.

A movie with same name is released in year, 2007 and was highly rewarded across world-wide.

 





 
 Khaled Hosseini is an Afghan-born American novelist and physician. He is a citizen of the United States where he has lived since he was fifteen years old. His 2003 debut novel, The Kite Runner, was an international bestseller, published in thirty-eight countries. In 2007, It was followed by “A Thousand Splendid Suns”

 

The Kite Runner is not a romance, but it is a love story. A love story between fathers and sons, and those we call brothers- of the heart, if not blood. Their story touches on the complexities of familial love and accurately shows that, at times, we can love and hate those we feel the closest too.

One of highly recommended book for Literature Lover.


Regards
Dhitendra
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73rd Blog - "Love does not walk away, People Do"


Someone once said, love does not walk away, people do. I wants to add one more thing, and they take love with them. It is like taking it out of an old box, folding it carefully, packing into a bag and taking it away from you. And you are left with nothing but pain, memories and a great feeling of a loss. A loss of something big. Something important. Something meaningful. Once it is gone, nothing else matters. The world is not the same anymore. You are not the same anymore.

And you find yourself thinking more, Retrospecting more and Wondering more.

And months will go before finally you will be able to look back and realize how much time you have wasted just sitting there, sorting out the pieces of your heart according to the various degrees of pain you feel.

And months will go before finally you will be able to let go and you finally give another someone a chance. But it will be months later. And for now, here you are, stuck in the past, wishing it was the present.

Months will go before you realize quite a number of things. You will learn that people always turn out how they promised they wouldn’t. You will learn that forever does not really last forever and that feelings have their expiration date. You will learn that people lie. You will learn that people leave. You will learn that some things are just not meant to be.

But most of all you will learn that memories fade. You will sit there thinking about time spent and promises made. You will remember all the happy smiles and all the cheerful moments. You will let the joys of the past put you into illusion of love and warmth. You will feel the presence of your loved one when you close your eyes, but when you reach for them, you will feel them slipping away. You will feel your memories fade.

And you will keep wondering how come that something so strong made you this weak. It will make you confused and lost. Lost to the world. Lost to yourself. You will take time to get over it. You will take time to adjust to a new reality. And then a moment comes when you start to pretend that everything is alright. Because people expect you to be. And because when the whole world thinks that you are fine, sometimes you forget for a while that you are not.

And you will learn new things again. You will learn that people mistake your strength for ability to hide the pain deep inside. You will learn that no matter how much you wish they could be, things will never be the same. And you will learn that no matter how good you are, it does not guarantee a happily-ever-after.

But it all does not matter. It all will not matter. You will wake up every day and keep on walking. No matter how many pieces your heart consists now of, you will hold them all together, as a whole.

And you will keep on walking. 
And even if it is damn painful to let go, even if it is the toughest thing in the world not to cry when it is the only thing you actually want to do, even then you still keep on walking.

Even when you know the past can’t become the present and surely can’t turn into the future, you still keep on walking.


Because you will also learn that after every storm will always come the sun. Be it weeks, months or years (God forbid!) the sun will come. Maybe not the way you expected it to be, but most probably the way it is meant to be.
 
And you will keep on walking.




Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)

72th Blog Post - Don't come in my life just for a Reason


"Dedicated to All Lovers"
Don't come in my life just for a Reason
Don't come in my life just for a Season

Only I know, why I want your warm embrace
The time when tears fall down on my face
Because, I feel safe when sleeping in your arms
And feeling impregnable from all world harms
Years and years have came and gone
Yet our Immortal Love has its gripped on
Touch me, love me and always be with me
The way we always are supposed to be
Only you can realize ever in my eyes
How much I hate the word goodbyes
One day I'll be back to feel your warm embrace
When no more tears will fall down on my face

Don't come in my life just for a Reason
Don't come in my life just for a Season

######## Singh Dhitendra ########
 
Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)
 

Monday, 24 June 2013

71th Blog - "DO" - What you love to Do.



"DO" - What you love to DO – Everyone Knowing this, but how many did it?

"Success comes in a lot of ways, but it doesn't come with money and it doesn't come with fame. It comes from having a meaning in your life, doing what you love and being passionate about you do. That's having a life of success - When you have the ability to do what you love, love what you do and have the ability to impact the people. That's having a life of success. That's what having a life of meaning is". - Tim 





How you look you about your life, What is actually important for an individual and why that is so important to be. 




Is It important what other people think about you.??
Is It important that you have to look good for other people.
??
Is It important that, people think you’re a nice person.
??
Is It important to get other people approval on your ideas.
??

If your answer for all the question is “Yes”, then you are probably wrong and you are
surviving in a RAT-RACE Life, it might be a time to make change in You.
Why....?
Why? It is a very good question?

Because it’s important that you can live with the Freedom of being Yourself, no matter what other people think, no matter how other people judge, no matter what and how other people feel about it. Is it hard? Yes! It’s hard to start changing Yourself and live without the approval or opinion of others, as we are so used to live that way and our environment tells us to live that way.  

Is it good for you to live that way?

No, its not. As it’s much more important for you to be happy with whatever you’re doing or whatever you like to do. Or even whatever you like to wear as clothes or hairstyles. Because if you think about it, when you have an idea and you ask someone or several people about their opinion probably most of the time you get only negative response. Will you still carry on with your idea and develop it? Most of the people will say No, not for now. So, did it really make you happy when you called of your idea or plan? You’ll probably regret later, maybe years later, that you never did it or didn’t carry on with it. And that’s why it’s important that we start to live in of our-self, with our own ideas and plans, what we like and what we do or what we want to do, no matter what other people say or think about it!

Believe me, For many years it was very important what other people, or even your family would say or think about your ideas or your way of living. Years later when you made the change to not listen anymore to other people’s opinions or judgments and just do what you wanted to do and how you wanted to live your life, it made you so much happier!

Is it still always easy for you?

No, it’s not always easy, but when you hold on to your believes, to your ideas and just move on with it, it finally makes you realize that you're happy for moving on with it, otherwise you'd have missed out on a lot.

The funny thing is also, when “they” see and realize that you do your own thing even though they told you to do different. after a while, they just accept. As they can’t “touch” or “hit” you anymore and, most important, not “control” you anymore. Because that’s what it really is. When you let other people decide what you do or how to live your life. They are in control of Your Life, not You! And that’s not the way how it should be. You have the right on your own Life, how to live it, what to do, what to wear, how to look like etc. And if people really Love you, then they will Love you for who you really are .

Don’t change yourself because others like to see you that way, as it’s not you. So, go out and live your Own Life!

Because - It is always better to live your own life imperfectly then to imitate someone else perfectly. -- Eat, Pray, Love By Elizabeth Gilbert.

And remember to Live in the Now, Let don't go in the Past and don’t worry about the Future.



Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)