Friday, 12 July 2013

81st Blog – Wish you a Very Happy Birthday “The Cool Captain”


              Mahendra Singh Dhoni – A name that contains every formula of Leadership and who know how to lead and be calm in worst-est of conditions. His name is now enough to introduce him on the pages of world cricket. He is the most successful Captain and Wicket-Keeper in India ever. Also in the ground he known as Captain Cool and recently as “Iceman”. He was born as in Ranchi on 7 of July 1981. He has done his studies in his home town Ranchi. His father name is Pan Singh Dhoni and mother name is Devki Devi. He has two sibling, one sister and one brother. Presently he is the captain in all forms of Indian International Cricket team (i.e. T-20, One day and Test)

           In just 4 years of captaincy, Mahendra Singh Dhoni has emerged as one of India's most successful captain, this cricket crazy country has seen. The captain cool has led the team to many first under his captaincy. He led Team India to No. 1 in the ICC Test Rankings for the first time in December 2009 and also closed the gap with Australia in one days after winning the coveted 2011 Cricket World Cup. He started his captaincy career with the shortest format of the game and immediately led an inexperienced India Twenty20 squad to the inaugural ICC World Twenty20 victory in South Africa in September 2007. Soon after returning victorious in the World Twenty20, he was made the India's one-day international captain for the seven-match ODI series against Australia in September 2007. After serving the team as vice-captain for a while, Dhoni was made full-time Test captain of India during the fourth Test against Australia at Nagpur in November 2008 replacing Anil Kumble, who announced his retirement after the third Test. He made his mark in the international cricket soon after his ODI debut in December 2004 against Bangladesh. He scored a match-winning 148 against Pakistan in Visakhapatnam off 123 balls in his fifth ODI and announced his arrival in the international arena. Dhoni made his Test debut against Sri Lanka in December 2005. Similar to his one-day career, he slammed his maiden century (148) against Pakistan in 2006. His maiden ton came off 93 balls and is the fastest hundred scored by an Indian wicket-keeper. By winning the Hyderabad Test against Australia on Tuesday by an innings and 135 runs, Mahindra Singh Dhoni surpassed Sourav Ganguly as India's most successful Test captain.

           Dhoni has 29 Test wins, one more than Ganguly who held the record previously. To add to this record figure Dhoni also has the T20 World Cup win in 2007 and the ICC ODI World Cup win in 2011 under his belt as a testament to his success as a captain who has lead his troops in all formats of the game. Recently he was also the captain of team who won the prestigious ICC Champions Trophy. After winning ICC Championship trophy, Dhoni became the first Caption who won all the Major title as a caption and this achievement is remarkable. It can be rightly said that Sourav Ganguly did the bulk of the hard work to build Team India, Rahul Dravid and Anil Kumble added the much-needed boost to the growth process. Dhoni also did his share of the work; the result is the success that India has enjoyed in the last decade.

           “All Indian will never forget your contribution of an Inning and Last Six in the Final Match of 2011 Cricket World Cup. Thanks to giving us an opportunity to celebrate the throne of World Cricket after 28 long Years.”

           Wish you a Little belated Happy Birthday “The Cool Caption”. Almighty give him a good health, luck and a prosperous life.


Regards
Dhitendra
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80th Blog – Wish you a Very Happy Birthday “The Warrior Prince”.




          There were few Modern cricketer who had contributed too much in cricket history as later across the world they all are titled as Legend and the contribution was too high, that it seems impossible to be repeated again. For me the legends are Sachin Tendulkar, Sourav Ganguly, Rahul Dravid, Brian Lara, Steve Waugh, VVS Laxman, Ricky Ponting and Gary Kirsten.

          When we come to talk about Sourav Ganguly he is truly one of the finest captain of Indian Cricket Team, an iconic image in the history of cricket and a forever hardline spirited man and a born leader. And today the iconic figure of Bengal is celebrating his 41st Birthday. The left–handed batting master was born on 8th July in the year 1972 in Kolkata, West Bengal. He is famously called as “Dada” that means “Elder Brother”, “The Bengal Tiger”, “God of Off Side”, “Prince of Kolkata” and also famed to be most courageous captain of Indian Team. 
 
          A Man who took off his shirt at the balcony of Lords to celebrate India’s win during the final of Natwest Series in 2002 in England.

          As Steve Waugh once famously said that he saw in Sourav a committed individual who wanted to inject some toughness and combativeness into a side that had often tended in the past to roll over and expose a soft underbelly.

          He was arguably one of the best left-hand batsmen India has ever and famed as the “God of Off Side”. He was too much skilled to play off-side deliveries as the legendary batsmen was famously described by Rahul Dravid as "Next to God on the off-side." A creative force often termed as a rebel, a man layered with many characters and always in the thick of things. He was probably one of those very few men who took the field and evoked mixed emotions. A career spanning more than sixteen years was full of disasters and rescues, and comebacks and mistakes and memorable moments. Ganguly was fun, just the kind of energy he brought to a cricket field, the passion with which he played the game of cricket and his willingness to take on the best is what separates him from the rest.
 
          With Sachin Tendulkar, Ganguly formed one of the most destructive opening pairs in ODI cricket history and became the second Indian to cross the 10000-run mark in ODIs. Every fast bowler worth his salt tried to knock off his head with short balls and bouncers at some point of their career but his elegance and grace on the off-side is beyond question. Throughout his career he has flirted with danger, played with his fate, tempting it to turn its back on him and just when his critics wrote him off he would surprise everybody by making a comeback. Only he probably knows how to write his own scripts.

          With a record of 21 Test wins, Ganguly stood on top of the record books for eight years before Dhoni overtook him. The stark difference between the two captaincy has to be that Sourav Ganguly was given a team that needed to be molded and built, he took over at a time when VVS Laxman, Rahul Dravid and Harbhajan Singh were not the power houses that they were when Dhoni was captain. Also, Sachin Tendulkar was going through a lean patch at that time.

          He may have quit international cricket for three years now but the love and affection Sourav Ganguly that received still is enviable. Almost three years have passed, but public’s love and affection for this cricketing legend has not faded away even a little. 
 
It was only his hard work to build Team India and became a formidable force under his leadership. It was under his able leadership that India managed to shed the tag of 'tigers at home and lambs abroad'. His contribution to Indian cricket is immense and will forever be remembered as the man who changed the face of Indian cricket.

          SAURAV WAS, IS AND SHALL BE THE BEST LEFT HANDED BATSMAN AND CAPTAIN INDIA EVER HAD.

          Love Him or Hate Him, But you Have to Respect Him.

          Wish you a Very Happy Birthday “The Warrior Prince”. Almighty give him a good health, luck and a prosperous life.



Regards
Dhitendra
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Sunday, 30 June 2013

79th Blog - A Short Story - "Who Knows who will meet you in what form and on which path in life"


 
 "It's a result of a Video"

"There's nothing great exercise for a heart that reached down and help the people to lift up."
It was the month of January and was an extreme cold in Delhi. In that Icy evening of Delhi, keeping his hands in his coats pocket, alongside the pavement of a two-lane road he was walking towards his home. The cold was enough to make feel her presence and it was enough to not let allow the people to come out from their warm place and warm dresses. But there are other things he need to think and to care about. 
 
On his way to his home, the only he's thinking about the Word is “Recession”, the word that sacked out the masses from their earnings. Many people got unemployed. Some of them move to their hometowns, Some of them was not able to bear that happening and run into with death. Some of them was from fine background and thus they involved in their family business. But most of them are still in this city, In the hope, Some fine day everything in near future will be great. And he was one of them. He was never looking for a quit. Ever since he pink-slipped from his job, he'd been unemployed with a very little earnings with to and fro jobs. But when painful day hits you, it hits like an atmospheric phenomenon, when the poor usually get more poor. And as the chillness of winter ragged on, the chill had finally hit his home also.

It was late in evening, just about to a night thus the road was alone. Not very many people had a reason to be on it, unless they were leaving. He was thinking most of his friends that had already left this country to make an earning in Dollars or in Pounds. They had families to feed and dreams to fulfill. He also had. But he decided to stayed on. After all, this was the place where his father and mother born and grew, this is the place where he buried them. It is the same place where he was born, where he had grown up and he knew the city very well, he knew this country very well. Then how can he left his motherland. Because in his own belief, Serving people of our own motherland is the best service. He could go down here on every road like a dazzled, and tell you what was on either side.

Lost in his own thoughts, he was walking alone on that lonely road. While on the other side of road he almost didn't able to see that old lady, who is standing on the other side of the road with her car. But even in the high darkness of evening, with the help of road-lights, he could see and realize that she need someone's help. So he crossed the road and walked to her. At the time he approached to her, due to his poor dresses, he look like as highway robber. 
 
Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. 
 
Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe? He's here to steal her precious things? Various thoughts rolled through her mind in an instant. He looked poor and hungry, He looks like a highway robber or criminal. Or he is here to help her.

He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill that only fear can put in you. 
 
“I think you're in trouble. Can I help you Ma'am?”. He asked.

She was very frightened. She truly need a help. She can believe on him due to his helping question or she still can be doubt on him due to his abominable appearance. 
 
“Please don't be in trouble. I'm here to help you Ma'am”. He tried to make that old lady a believe about his good being. “And My name is Aakash”. He introduced himself.

“Yes I need a help. My car has a puncture.” She reacted by pointing towards punctured tire of her car.

“Oh!, don't be panic, I can fix it. by the time, why don't you wait in the car where it's warm.” He replied with a more serving nature.

All she had a trouble was due to a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he was not professional, his hands got too much dirty and injured too. After changing the car's tire, he turned towards the window of car.

“It's all done Ma'am”.

She stepped out from her car and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from that place in Delhi and was only returning from her friend's home. She told him, she couldn't have enough words to thank him for coming to help her. He just smiled.

She asked him how much she has to pay for this. Lucre of being wealthy is that you need not to worry about money. Any amount would have been alright with her. She had already imagined all the awful things that could have happened if he had not stopped to help her. 
 
He never thought twice about the money. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way. He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance that they needed, and he added - “and think of me". 
 
He waited there until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day for him, but he felt good in that late evening when he headed for home.

A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take some rest before she made the last round of her journey to home. It was a dirty looking restaurant, not so good.

The restaurant waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed that the waitress was nearly seven months pregnant, but she never let the stress and strain and aches to change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little with her own body could be so helpful to a stranger. Then she remembered him, the person who helped her when she needed the most. 
 
She asked for bill after finishing her meal. The bill was of one-hundred fifty rupees somehow. She placed a five-hundred note to pay the bill. when the waitress went to get her change from a five hundred rupees, the lady slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. She wondered where the lady gone without picking her money. Then she noticed something written on a napkin that was placed under the plate. She raised that piece of napkin and started to read, there were tears rolling down from her eyes, when she read what the lady wrote. It said, "You don't owe me a thing, you don't need to be in debt for anything. I've been there too. Someone once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here's what you have to do is very simple. Don't let this trust and love ends with you. Keep moving on, with love in heart for everyone. When someone who needs help, just give your assistance.” And then she raised the five thousand rupees that the lady left for her under the same plate.

It was already a very late evening. No one is present in the restaurant and due to the chilled whether outside it also seems no one is going to come at this place now. There were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, gadgets to clean, things to make set up. But she can made it through tomorrow.

That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could she have known how much she and her husband needed this money? With the baby due after two month, it was going to be hard. She knew how worried her husband was from last few months. And in night, as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, "Someday everything is going to be alright, I love you Aakash."

"If you give a little love, you can get a little love of your own."
   
"I believe the world is a very big family and we all need to help each other." - Jet Li


Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)

Saturday, 29 June 2013

78th Blog - "Be the driver of your own life"

Over the past few months, I had gone through very situation, sometime tough, sometime very easy but most of the time it was tough and merely the painful too. The things that I thought not to be happen, just come about and one very fine day I come to conclude and have to accept it again that life is never easy, it never be. then how it is and the answer comes out “it is just not supposed to be in the way you think”. That is a simple answer for everyone and for every single human.

One of my close friend once said -"cry as long as you want now, and then you will forget about it." It made sense.

Another friend once said- "Stay in your hiding place as long as you want, but remember there are people who are willing to drag you out, they are still waiting for you outside. Don't make them wait for too long." and It too made sense.

But what I thought is “Never cry over the same problem twice, nor keep your eyes wet for so long that you fail to see the happy days coming again.” Somehow, how long one wishes to stay in that style decides how well he will cope up with it.

Every one has own happenings. its natural and alas have to Accept it!

There comes many time in our life when we're trapped in too many dramas of life. As in my earlier blogs I write out that “We're in this universe like a Puppet, Have to play only our Part, On a stage that was already designed and Have to act, Like it is already determined”. And it is very true someday there comes a point in life, where all the senseless drama exhausts you, the negativity drains the last drop of strength from your contempt soul and you are left with a thousand questions which seem to have no answer. The big stability of the routine pulls you down and you feel like running away from this world, hiding yourself in a secluded corner, away from friends, away from your families, away from your loved ones, away from office, away from the worries, more probably away from yourself own. You do not know what went wrong, you don't even know how to bring things back on path. In worse cases, you don't even know if there is anything wrong at all. You just feel alone, sad and helpless. Your life feels out of control and that frustrates you more than anything. It haunts you more than all wounds. It brings you down in all the way of life and tears you apart.

Everyone has problems, your ability to deal with them decides your fate. It is okay to be low at times, it is okay to give yourself some privacy and to ponder about the mess around. It is okay to even curse and cry. but then make sure to get over it completely, and then return stronger.

But the good thing about life is every one has to face it all- sometimes loneliness, sometimes sadness, sometimes depression, sometimes failure. and then gradually happiness follows. No one can be exactly in same mood or phase throughout the life.

There are people around, who try to help you, but you are so obsessed about your own dilemmas that you tend to ignore them, or in worse cases even shut yourself away from them. you end up hurting the ones who are closest to you, only to regret that later. There are always some people who need you. not the sad or depressed you've, but the blessed. Don't misjudge or ignore them. When you can't deal with things alone, then don't lock yourself in a room, where no one can come to bring you out.

Life is good. Despite worst situations, good people exist and they care for your well being. Keep yourself up, and treat them well. They are the people, God has sent as a link to the good days. they help you to look out for small packets of happiness and soon you will collect a bag full of them.

Trust on those people for your own good.

If you run away from the situations. they will come running behind you. Stop that! Decide how you are going to deal with them. Think and then Act. once you decide to take control over your own life, things will automatically fall in place.

You are never alone, neither are you the only person having problems in life. In-fact you are lucky to have the power to steer your life in any direction that you want. Be the driver of your own life, and you will never be alone to travel on the road.

You and only you are the creator of your own destiny”
 
 
 
 
 
Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)

77th Blog - "Changes starts when we're ready to make start"

There might be surly a sound relation between your mind, choice, thought, the way, actions and your life. your mind is able to understand and can push to make the choice. Your choice having the ability to push over the thought. Your thought and choice co-incidentally will push you to make the way to follow and grow-up. Your way is able to push to attempt an action. While your actions naturally be able to push your life ahead. While many of people spending their lives by looking around all that have. But too many people spend their lives looking in the rear view mirror, regretting what could have been. I'll say to stop and look around at all what you've. Let's start and continue a journey by looking only ahead to all the wonderful possibilities that are waiting for you in future. Continue on your journey by looking only ahead to all the wonderful possibilities that are in front of you."

Your mind will push your thoughts, your thoughts will push your actions, while your actions will surly push your life."

I listened many people several time with a saying – I didn't like this and that, I got mad by looking continue these wrong happening, I want to look something good now, the society where we lives bad in every manner; but how many of us are eager to make these changes let be happen, let it be a reality so that at least we'll snap our generation a good and luminous tomorrow and society. Everyone wants to make a change that's true but no one wants to make a start, is a more bitter truth. We just want to live in our Box-packed house and watch to come someone in front to make those changes. But it need to remember always “NOBODY” will change the world for us unless and until we do it ourselves. Everyone is expecting to change the world, No one trying to change themselves, We have to accept responsibility & never expect things to happen, We need to struggle with them and make them happen, we need to be more strong against every wrong, and to be come with a more will-power, then only we're able to create a good and better society.

Its your Attitude, Passion, Dream, Motivation, Ambition and the Factor that matters. Its never matter, Where and How you are in this world, If you decided something to do, something deep from your heart, something that lighted every moment, only then you can do it, It is way of thought that matters, It is the way you start that matters, nothing else.

"You can not change your future, but you can change your habits, and surly your habits will change your future" ---------- A.P.J. Abdul Kalam

Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)

Friday, 28 June 2013

76th Blog - "Life is a prison when you are in love alone"


It does not matter now, he thought. Nothing does. He will close his eyes and everything will disappear. The world. The tears. The pain. That was what he hoped for, that was what he believed in, that was what he had never tried before. Because if he tried and it didn’t work, he would have nothing left to have faith in. Because if he closed his eyes and the pain were still there, he would be broken. he would be destroyed, Ruined, Reduced and much more Crippled.

But today he was ready to take that risk. Today he wanted to stick to that little hope that everything might be if not fine, but at least okay. Today he wanted to close his eyes. So what if there was a good chance that he might be knocked down and broken into pieces. How did it matter if nobody cared? How did it matter if even he did not care?

Suddenly he noticed her picture on the table. It was an old one and one of the beautiful one. he realized that he didn’t remember when it had been taken. Five years ago? Six? Maybe more old. He didn’t know anymore. he didn’t care anymore. he didn’t want to know. Should he close the eyes now, he wondered. Let himself be forced to the world of illusions, to the world where he remembered the pictures, the dates. Where he actually didn’t need pictures to look into her eyes. Where he just did not need any pictures. Because She and only she is there.

He wanted to close his eyes. he really did. he hoped to see her in the world of his fantasies. he wanted to ask so many questions. he wanted to talk. he wanted to stay silent. he wanted to feel her presence. To feel her love. To feel her. To be with her. he wanted to stay there. he wanted to close his eyes and never open them. No, he didn’t want to die. he only wanted to close his eyes, to feel her presence, to feel himself in her arms, to feel her warm embrace and love. he wanted to dream. To hope. To live with her.

It was her birthday today. It was her first birthday after that car accident. It was her first birthday after the car accident that had changed their lives. It was her first birthday after the car accident that had killed her. It was the first birthday. Damn it! He thought. It is the first birthday when she is not with her to cut the cake. It was the first birthday when she was not with him to enjoy the day.

He didn't ask “why” anymore. The time of questions had long passed. he did not cry anymore. Not in the day at least. And he did not smile anymore. All he wanted was one simple thing – to close his eyes, to disappear, to vanish. All he wanted was to live, was to live only with her.

Should I close the eyes? he asked. Silence. In an utter silence. Of course, who would have going to replied for his own soul question? 
 
He was all alone. Wrapped by the blanket of loneliness. Stuck in the darkness of grief. Losing herself in an agony of silence. He was alone. And She was alone too, Somewhere. Maybe in another world, people says that exist afterlife. Maybe in the same one. 
 
Love need not to end like this one, he thought. At-least not in this way. But She was not there. he knew that. he just was not ready to accept that truth. 
 
He took a deep breath and closed his eyes. A moment later he's smiling. He sat on the bench under an old oak tree. In his imagination he sat down next to her. he didn’t say a word. In his imagination neither did she speaks a single word. But at that moment of life did they exactly need some words to say ?? No they didn’t need words. They needed Just each other. And all they had to do was to close their eyes at the exact same time. And they did.


Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)

Thursday, 27 June 2013

75Th Blog - “A Thousand Splendid Suns" By Khaled Hosseini

I'm always eager to find out and read those books, that relates with Social causes and yet described and narrated in a typical fable style. In the case when the Author is already critically acclaimed across the globe, It must be essential to read those books to find out the content that works as smash hit from the perspective of Author. 
 
Often most of writer completed their books in a very short span of time, apart someone takes an year sometime more than an year to complete a single book. At a single time they only engaged with a single book, results in world-wide plaudits. And it is very good to read an author, whose books was already critically acclaimed and read by masses.

After completing “The Kite Runner” By Mr. Khaleed, I was waiting for his next book to release. “The Kite Runner” comes in a category of few books, that capture and portray the relations. It is one of the beautiful crafted novel and unforgettable, heartbreaking story of the unlikely friendship between a wealthy boy and the son of his father's servant. Since this book is already so popular that need not any description.

When I come to the book “A Thousand Splendid Suns”, as per my perspective this book is good but not good as “The Kite Runner”. While as per remarks of many good reviewer world-wide, this is better than what the Author portrait in his last work. I purchased this book after reading the summary that was on back cover page. But the story was totally different from that. Sometime reader feel bore due to very wide unnecessary description in the book.

This book is divided into four parts, with a focus on Mariam in the first part, continuing Laila in the second and fourth, and the relationship between the two women in the third part.

A Thousand Splendid Suns is set in Afghanistan from the early 1960s to the early 2000s. It is the story of poor, uneducated women Mariam who have to endure the hardships of life. The story begins with an abusive sentence “She was five years old when she heard the word HARAMI”, “HARAMI” that normally used to call for street people. This novel narrates the horrors and terrors that a lot of women have gone through during certain period in Afghanistan, the war torn country, and the narration through the lives of two woman Mariam and Laila. Going through All kinds of Physical abuse of hitting, kicking and slapping, brutal beating, Struggling the cruel extremely sadistic Rasheed, And suffering all kinds of violence and subjected to his shifting mood and volatile temper. Witnessing the ugliness of war, the fate of loved ones, grieving for lost lives. The end of the novel give some hope in its last scene after all the violent accidents, with Laila's pregnancy, Kabul rebuilding, and a loving family reunion. The novel centers around the friendship between Mariam and Laila.

A Thousand Splendid Suns is at once a remarkable chronicle of three decades of Afghan history and a deeply moving account of family and friendship. It is a striking, heart-wrenching novel of an unforgiving time, an unlikely friendship, and an indestructible love, a stunning accomplishment. A Thousand Splendid Suns is a breathtaking story set against the volatile events of Afghanistan's last thirty years, from the Soviet invasion to the reign of the Taliban to post-Taliban rebuilding, that puts the violence, fear, hope and faith of this country in intimate, human terms. It is a tale of two generations of characters brought jarringly together by the tragic sweep of war, where personal lives, the struggle to survive, raise a family, find happiness, are inextricable from the history playing out around them.

This book is not good as “The Kite Runner” but still is a good read.


Regards
Dhitendra
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