“Happiness
is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for
it, insist upon it and sometimes even travel around the world looking
for it. - EAT, PRAY, LOVE by Elizabeth Gilbert.
It's
not a brand-new subject that we don't know about and we have to
discuss all day long. Everyone of us know what the word “HAPPINESS”
means. Everyone of us wants to live happy. Isn't. Probably, everyone
of us know how and individual can be live happy; besides all of us
are not doing the stuffs that keep our mind in peace, because peace
of mind is only the clause in universe that brings happiness in
realism. The happiness that comes from our own innermost soul. It is
not something that had already made, It is something that comes from
own. And it matters in your life because it really matters due to its
different perspective to enjoy the life – Be happy-ever-after, it's
only that matters nothing else.
We
know the things that we've to do for our happiness. But doing nothing
and almost never.
We
know the reason behind of every our sadness. And thinks and do
regularly.
As
I think, Happiness. Being happy is an art, an art there's not any art
behind it. and I do think and believe an art never comes with an ending date,
besides over the time it becomes even more beautiful.
At
the same time, I'm not one person who believes anyone can be live
happy all the time in his or her throughout life, but I have learned
throughout my journey in life that we can be live happy much of the
time of our life. It's not very difficult and It's not too very easy.
But there is a phrase “Moving carefully is the most hardest way,
but moving carefully is only the right way”. And that's not
something that depends on how your day is going or how others treat
you – it depends on what you do on a regular basis. Happiness is a
skill you can learn and practice the rest of life. Whether we drive
from happiness or simply grow happiness right under your feet. We can
draw from many sources to help us on our own journey. What we have do
is very simple “Be the master artist of your mind and man of
science of your heart's feeling”.
I
remember being unhappy most days, at one point in my life. It wasn't
because I hated the people in my life – I had everything in my life
and no reason to be live unhappy. But it was because I was unhappy
with myself, and that caused growing debt problems, unhappiness
within myself. I felt like I couldn't change any of that. I felt that
I can't be the person once I was. I felt that I'm losing to myself
for that even doesn't exist anywhere in my life. I felt that I'm
thinking every-time for wrong person, wrong reason and probably on
all the time, that was wrong one.
Then
one day I sat down and made a list. I make a lot of list – it's one
of my favorite habits – but this list seemed to have a magical
power. It was a list of the things I was grateful for. Amazingly,
there were a lot of things on the list to do in and about my life.
This list was magical because I went from feeling a bit depressed
about everything, and hopeless and helpless, to much happier. My
mindset shifted from the things I didn't like or didn't have, to the
things I was really happy I had. And I was in control.
The
bottom line of this life is that we own are responsible for
everything that happen to us. One of the amplest thing to keep happy
all the time is to keep our-self busy with the task that we love.
Other one is, we must find out our faults and discuss with some near
one and be sure that we are sorry for them instead of finding faults
in others. This will make people humble & hence happy. You have
to phrase your desires in terms of what you want, not in ways that
express what you don't want. Habits
of happiness are very simple and can be adopted by all those who love
to be happy with habits. Simply the best.
“Happiness
is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of
human existence”
– Aristotle.
“Live your life because you're happy, not because you wants to be happy.” - Singh Dhitendra
Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smiling :-)
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