64th Blog - An Institute of Cricketing – He is “SACHIN RAMESH TENDULKAR”

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An Institute of Cricketing – He is “SACHIN RAMESH TENDULKAR”

When I started to write again after a long break, I was very well aware about the fact that, my control over this language, called “English” was not remains as good as it was seven year back, probably after a lot thinking, I decided to start this again, It's very tough journey to start and come back, when you left something faraway, but starting anytime is good habit. I am not very sure but, may be I'll be able to cover this again and, The day when I started to write, I always eager to write about a very few personalities that I regarded most in my life, there can be many and may be counting yet, but some remains like, you can't imagine and describe in words. He is one of them, who is so popular between the age of every generation, you even can't split this popularity like between male and female, he is popular in heart of everyone, every Indian. and when you're going to write something about the person, who already have had uncountable fan's, treated by followers in their own vision, you've to be very careful to choose your word's because, words can't be able to haul and grip the greatness they have and moving with. He is one of them, this man have everything, you can say everything a person wants to be see in himself, he have confidence, dedication, passion, patience, cool sometime jolly nature, how to give and take respect, high ambition, fame (That comes in last, because I'm sure this word is not such important for him) and many more. He is the hope and faith of billions, carrying the burden of Indian cricket hopes from last twenty-four year's, unimaginable the last twenty-four year's. Truly deserve more than the word “RESPECT”.

Every individual is aware, about his contribution to the world of cricket, thus, There is nothing more to write anything about the Giant person, or we can say there is no-one to write the whole about this Great Soul, for whom the volume of pages are short to write, the words to spoke are less than, that are present in this world, the attender are always more than can you imagine. The superiority of playing every shot, every shot, every strike, is par excellence and beyond imagination. he comes in category of a few people you have in your life, that encourage you every-time, not only by the heights they achieved in his/er life, but also by the sheer dedication and passion of the work, they are born to do, those people always give you a source of energy and reason to do keep your work correctly, with a perfection and a positive attitude. We always see those people and got inspired, We want to be like them. We want to be famous like them, We dream of living a life of theirs. We start learning from them. For some of us, just praying such people is enough. This itself makes them feel good about their life. Some are just fans who wants to see their idol working and achieving things rather than following them and being one of their kinds in their field of work. There's no problem in being in this group either as loving someone unconditionally even when you know that they belong to a totally different world which is almost in-achievable for us to be in. He is one of that legendary personality. People love and pray him unconditionally. In the word's of almost all legendary performer ( from every game ) “He is one of the most complete batsman of his time, the most prolific run-maker of all time, and arguably the biggest cricket icon the game “Cricket” has ever known. His batting is based on the purest principles: perfect balance, economy of movement, precision in stroke-making, and that intangible quality given only to geniuses - anticipation”. In our Life we watched a number of legends in every game, but watching Sachin gives a different pleasure. He is one of the most patience player in generation of all games, and no one can blame him for being arrogant, egoistic and selfish. Beside many of people between us say, that he is playing for his own individual records and not in the welfare of country, and I'm totally disagree with their perception, I can say we can't being able in our life to stand on our own feet for even more than ten years with such a qualities he had every single moment, more than ten continue years, with such a passion, dedication, patience and liberty to hear every wrong and good statements, Beside this man standing alone from last twenty-four years, with very same prime with a lot of good memories.

The day when he decided to retirement from the ODI format, like of billion people, I even was not able to imagine such a news, That the ever greatest player of Cricket is going to announce his retirement from his home, without giving a proper speech and a Show-off. Beside I was always eager to hear and wants to see Sachin by making a record of a “Century of fifties and a half century of centuries” in ODI itself, but no one has control over time, this proves with Sachin again, as the time moves on, everything was left behind and everything that you have had, gone away someday from you. You can't chase it as the time period for which it was allocated to you has been over. Now you can only wish to lead your life in future with smile on your face and passion for something else. Life does not end at any stage. I am not quite sure by what more time he is going to play in Test-Cricket. Anyway I am happy, he is probably enjoying the other most beautiful joys of life, called as “Family”.

No one from us, know the day when you are going to take a retirement from all format of Cricketing, but one thing is sure, you'll be remain like an unforgettable memory in nous and probably more in our hearts. Every time we would be falling down, some or the other person will give us an example having him in it and we will get our strength back, Your name is enough to declare what you deliver in last twenty-five years, and this is a motivation for all of us, we all have learned so much from you. Controlling anger to having patience to bearing criticisms to carry accusations to almost being victimized for something that we have not been even a part of still appreciating the unwanted happening. He tells how the work itself does not define a person but also his character and its outlook does. He has maintained a good character throughout and hence, we love him more. Otherwise, there has been many better innings by others too. But why he stands out to be different for us does not have just one reason i.e. "Cricket", but many other human aspects that we have to learn from him. Being myself I can say I've to learn many things from him. i.e. control over anger, passion towards the work I love most, dedication towards the life I wants to live, the happiness that have to give to the masses, Patience and many more. Your achievements seem always greater still when looked at in the light of the burden of expectations had to bear from adoring but somewhat unreasonable followers, who have been prone to regard anything less than a hundred in each innings as a failure. The aura may have dimmed, if only slightly, as the years on the international cricket have taken their toll on the body, but you remains as same, by a distance, the most wor-shipped cricketer in the world .

“Wish You a Very happy 40th Birthday and an Interesting life After the World of Cricket.”

"Be a Good Human Being, before being anything". He fits this sentence very well.


Regards

Dhitendra

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63rd Blog - Part of Mistakes in LIFE

 

“Mistake”- the word that look like, invented to give a fear in mind. Like, “What happens to me, if I did this mistake, what happens to other, if I did that mistake.” but the more important question is “What, if you didn't make any mistake in your life”, According to Einstein “A Person who never made a mistake, never tried anything new”. But this word keeps a lot of fear, and forces to not make try anything new, while the problem is that, we all make mistakes.

Everyone makes mistakes, One mistake, Two mistakes, A dozen mistakes.

Today. Yesterday and Tomorrow.

We all make mistakes. Every minute of our life we take decisions, some of which turn out to be wrong. Often we are told to learn from others’ mistakes. But maybe we can learn from other mistake, beside we can learn more from our own mistakes. So you just go out there and make your own mistakes because you are left with no choice. Of course you will fall down, get hurt, cry, laugh, struggle, but you will always have to be get up and move on, because being defeat is not the worst of failures, not to have tried is the true failure. Life is too short to stay there down and feel regret for those mistakes. You just believe that everything happens for a reason. And if you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it’d be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. It’s not what you look like or what you have. But it’s the little things in life that make it all worth while.

Watching the sunset and the moon rise. Spending time doing crazy things with your friends. Random trips in the middle of the night. Enjoying the beautiful mountains. Drinking a nice cold glass of lemonade on a hot summer day, or a hot cup of cocoa on a cold winter day. Catching a snowflake on your tongue. Dancing in the rain. Taking bubble baths. Singing as if no one could hear you. Staying up all night with your best friend. Laughing. Falling in love. Conquering your biggest fear. Watching the waves crash into the sand.

Life doesn't always give second chances, take the first one. Live it to the fullest with no regrets from yesterday. Maybe you will make your own mistakes but then you will never regret about things you missed out doing. Just remember that you only get one shot. One shot at this day, One shot at this minute, One shot at this age, One shot at this life. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment, and take from it everything you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

So what does one mistake mean if you see the big picture? The picture of your own life!!

Consult not your fears, but your hopes and your dreams, think not about your frustrations, but about your unfulfilled potential. Concern yourself not with what you tries and failed in, but with what it is possible for you to do. Everything that you live through helps to make you the person you are now. -------------------- Pope John.

Regards

Dhitendra

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62nd blog - माँ, मैं कहते कहते सब रुक जाती हूँ ,

माँ, मैं कहते कहते सब रुक जाती हूँ ,

माँ, मैं सहते सहते सब चुप हो जाती हूँ,

किसकी नजरों से बचाऊ अपनी लाज यहाँ,

कहाँ जाऊ मैं, महफूज़ हो जाऊ जहाँ,

इस भरी महफ़िल में रोज लुटती रहती हूँ,

दर्द का एक सैलाब लिए बस घुटती रहती हूँ ,

कभी अपनों ने, कभी परायों ने देखा उन नजरों से,

चाहकर भी ना बच पाई उन सबके कहरों से,

हाथों को जोड़े बस तड़पती ही रहती हूँ,

मैं जननी, मैं पालनहारी, क्यों इस पीड़ा को सहती रहती हूँ,

है कोई यहाँ जो मेरे दर्द को समझता हो,

मेरी खोई इज्ज़त लौटने को भी कभी तड़पता हो,

है कोई यहाँ जो मुझको फिर से जीना सीखा दे,

है कोई जो खोया हुआ अस्तित्व मेरा फिर से मुझको लौटा दे.

One more Rape Incident, in the Capital of INDIA, Such incidents make me feel first ashamed to be a “HUMAN BEING” and then ashamed to be a “MAN”, first ashamed to born in this “WORLD” and then to born in this “COUNTRY”, Where female are treated as “Goddess” and worshiped in multiple appearances, beside they're now asking for her “RESPECT” everywhere. In a country where females are supposedly honorable as mothers and prayed in the form of goddess, in a country where people fast and seek blessings from little girls during Navratri pooja, in the same country females are forced to live a shielded life. A void feeling, a feeling of embarrassment, a feeling of fear, a feeling of being petite, a feeling of being weak, and an unspeakable shame! Shame on the country where we live, shame on the society where we sustain and shame on the mindset of people. I already watched the movie “A Wednesday” thousand times, and even I reminded every meaningful lines and words of that movie, here one comes fit is “Kyon hum log kuch kar nahi paate, Kyon hum log hamesha itne lachar ho jate hai, kyon hum log intezaar karte hai, ki ye kab hum ya hamare logo ke saath ho” because we are very “USED TO”, We are good to forget the things, in-spite to make change the situation.

She was just a five year girl, with no skimpy clothes, no seducing traits, was not roaming with another boy in late night, was not having affair with anyone, was not in condition of drunk, was not in any late night parties, she was just an innocent five year old girl, In an age where she was meant to be playing with toys, she instead got used as a sex toy....!! there are thousand of cases we hear and read Over news channels and newspapers, every-time media involved in those newses and float them like an awarding ceremony, This is the condition of the CAPITAL of our country and also the whole of India, which is both being ruled unfortunately by a woman, where the women commission head have had not enough time to listen the words of her own generation, because she is going to miss a blushing party. But here the question arise Who truly is responsible for all of that....? The twenty-two year old guy from Bihar, Manoj who did this to the little girl, or the cops who tried to settle the case showing their inhuman nature, or the current government who is busy in corruption and enjoying all this so they get more time for corruption while people like us are busy in the protest or the society that are used to forget the things too easily, or the educated person like we, don't have time, or the thinking that we had. Unfortunately every reason is correct, not only this only, beside there are “N” Number of reason, Its being a shame that age is no bar in a sick society like ours.!!

Most Important question leaves behind is “WHAT WAS HER MISTAKE”. what about that innocent five year girl? She is traumatized for the rest of her life with such acts of brutality!.

My heart wants to prays for her, My heart wants to pray to give the strength to stand up once again in her life, but “IS THAT TOO ENOUGH”. No Its not, “WE ALL ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS, WE ALL, NOT ONLY A SINGLE PERSON”.

Before being anything, First we need to be a good “HUMAN BEING”, somehow we are failed everywhere.

Regards

Dhitendra

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61st Blog - Life - What actually it is, and what we make it

“LIFE” – The most beautiful gift ever get by living being, Probably by a Human being, but was now destroying in the most molested way.

"LIFE" – for an individual, It is defined as the most precious and beloved gift of Almighty (People frequently asked me, why I'm using words like Almighty, Godhead, Creator etc., Because the words defines a single meaning, I yet remember one line of “A Wednesday” movie “Log naam mein Majaab dhund lete hai”), and thus I don't want to believe in making Unnecessary Scenes. None of Us Know “From where we come, What is source of Our birth, No one Know “Where we go after death”, there are only Myths and Stories floating across the world and by the different people and their followers, Some say this Religion is great, some Opposes no our is more great, But what the Common that every Religion, Religious books and the real Monks teaches us only is to Live in Peace and to Love the Every creature, But that we did ?? , I think NO, We just believing in exploring our religion and trying to shoe the fake faith in own religion, that is actually not the message of Almighty.

Well this is not the point of discussion, so I again focus on my point about life, How we lived it and how we behaved with, sensibly it all depends on us, In today's Era, Let's first think and talk about “HOW” we live. Busy schedules, crazy life cycle, lost in school or office routine – life of today.
 

What is it? , Where is it? , How is it? 
 

Do things like friendship, love, care, trust, understanding, beliefs still matter? Is there still something which we could call a wizard of life, or call Our life is full of such miracles that we enjoyed.

Apart to that We concentrate on problems instead of giving a chance to new opportunities, We live in the past instead of paying tribute to the present, We dream of the future while wasting our life today, Of course it is not like we should give up on our dreams or ignore the memories of departed joys and sorrows. But living in the past or in the future is losing the chance to make the best of our lives today. Actually the basic problem is that we analyze too much, Our expectation in every field is high, we are expecting to and too much, without knowing and for any real cause, we expect things to happen, we keep waiting for them to happen and are left with disappointment when things don’t go the way we have chosen for them, But at some time point we need to stop analyzing the past. Stop planning the future.

It is better to stop trying to figure out how we feel and where we should head to, Maybe we should stop giving our minds the right of decision on what we want. Stop expecting our hearts to feel the way we want, And maybe sometimes we just have to go with “Whatever, Happens, Happens Just for a Good Reason”. There is nothing bad in this world until unless we try to make it, There is surly something great waiting behind all your Odds. Apart to that I think We are really lucky, we have got an exclusive right to live our life now and here. And it would be only fair to live it the best way. Making it a “MAGIC”. The one that you can’t grasp with your mind. The one you can’t perceive with your heart. The happening that usually happens in silence while we are too busy doing lots of things which we pretentiously call “L.I.F.E” 
 

But was it not only the Sum of “Past + Present + Future”, No Exactly not and can never be, It is more than just a sum of all your life phases. More than all the events of your life, more than all your feelings, your actions, your words. It is always more, It is the smile you get from your kids when they receive their birthday gifts, It is the appreciation of parents when you once again prove yourself as a good human, It is the sunset you enjoyed yesterday with someone special, It is the first rain of the season, It is “I love you” whispered into your ear, A hug from your best friend, A call from your someone you lost touch with long ago, It is there in the knowledge that tomorrow surely will be a better day and you will make up for all the failures of today. It lies in the feeling that no matter how hard you try to cover up your past it will always be there, but you will deal with it the best way possible. It might be acceptance of the fact that people change and things change but you will always be there treasuring the memories of something beautiful, It is even expecting him to call but justifying him every time he does not. And it is learning that she is the best girl you have ever met but you just have missed your chance by letting her go.

It is right now, right here, with you.

When you go out with friends for a movie, When you call your parents to let them know you are fine, When you fight with your best friend, When you miss someone badly and it hurts When you cry, When you smile When you love, You doubt if you are in the right place? You believe that your past is affecting your present too much? You want to yell out to the world but are afraid someone might actually hear you? You are trying to find bright colors in live but you can’t? You are thinking that some people in your life don’t belong there? You learned to hate? You wonder if true love exists? You are lost? Confused? Tired? You feel like nothing is right at the moment?

It is life, too…

You are sad? Scared? Upset? Worried? Smiling? Happy? In love? Wondering? Isn’t it life? “MIRACLE”. The one that we fail to see because we are too stressed out, analyzing, thinking, expecting. And while we are so much busy, it happens somewhere out there. It happens in silence, it stays unnoticed. We find it boring, we don’t see it as something extraordinary. And we are disappointed.

Maybe because life was just granted to us. But really… was it?

“We all, we all, are not born as Immortal, even we don't know what actually Immortal Is, We're in this universe like Puppet, Have to play only our Part, Have to act, like it is already defined.

“JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE AS YOU WANT, YOUR SOUL and INNER VOICE IS NOT DEFINED BY SOMEONE, IT IS DEFINED BY YOU MY FRIEND”.


Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smilining :-)