61st Blog - Life - What actually it is, and what we make it

“LIFE” – The most beautiful gift ever get by living being, Probably by a Human being, but was now destroying in the most molested way.

"LIFE" – for an individual, It is defined as the most precious and beloved gift of Almighty (People frequently asked me, why I'm using words like Almighty, Godhead, Creator etc., Because the words defines a single meaning, I yet remember one line of “A Wednesday” movie “Log naam mein Majaab dhund lete hai”), and thus I don't want to believe in making Unnecessary Scenes. None of Us Know “From where we come, What is source of Our birth, No one Know “Where we go after death”, there are only Myths and Stories floating across the world and by the different people and their followers, Some say this Religion is great, some Opposes no our is more great, But what the Common that every Religion, Religious books and the real Monks teaches us only is to Live in Peace and to Love the Every creature, But that we did ?? , I think NO, We just believing in exploring our religion and trying to shoe the fake faith in own religion, that is actually not the message of Almighty.

Well this is not the point of discussion, so I again focus on my point about life, How we lived it and how we behaved with, sensibly it all depends on us, In today's Era, Let's first think and talk about “HOW” we live. Busy schedules, crazy life cycle, lost in school or office routine – life of today.
 

What is it? , Where is it? , How is it? 
 

Do things like friendship, love, care, trust, understanding, beliefs still matter? Is there still something which we could call a wizard of life, or call Our life is full of such miracles that we enjoyed.

Apart to that We concentrate on problems instead of giving a chance to new opportunities, We live in the past instead of paying tribute to the present, We dream of the future while wasting our life today, Of course it is not like we should give up on our dreams or ignore the memories of departed joys and sorrows. But living in the past or in the future is losing the chance to make the best of our lives today. Actually the basic problem is that we analyze too much, Our expectation in every field is high, we are expecting to and too much, without knowing and for any real cause, we expect things to happen, we keep waiting for them to happen and are left with disappointment when things don’t go the way we have chosen for them, But at some time point we need to stop analyzing the past. Stop planning the future.

It is better to stop trying to figure out how we feel and where we should head to, Maybe we should stop giving our minds the right of decision on what we want. Stop expecting our hearts to feel the way we want, And maybe sometimes we just have to go with “Whatever, Happens, Happens Just for a Good Reason”. There is nothing bad in this world until unless we try to make it, There is surly something great waiting behind all your Odds. Apart to that I think We are really lucky, we have got an exclusive right to live our life now and here. And it would be only fair to live it the best way. Making it a “MAGIC”. The one that you can’t grasp with your mind. The one you can’t perceive with your heart. The happening that usually happens in silence while we are too busy doing lots of things which we pretentiously call “L.I.F.E” 
 

But was it not only the Sum of “Past + Present + Future”, No Exactly not and can never be, It is more than just a sum of all your life phases. More than all the events of your life, more than all your feelings, your actions, your words. It is always more, It is the smile you get from your kids when they receive their birthday gifts, It is the appreciation of parents when you once again prove yourself as a good human, It is the sunset you enjoyed yesterday with someone special, It is the first rain of the season, It is “I love you” whispered into your ear, A hug from your best friend, A call from your someone you lost touch with long ago, It is there in the knowledge that tomorrow surely will be a better day and you will make up for all the failures of today. It lies in the feeling that no matter how hard you try to cover up your past it will always be there, but you will deal with it the best way possible. It might be acceptance of the fact that people change and things change but you will always be there treasuring the memories of something beautiful, It is even expecting him to call but justifying him every time he does not. And it is learning that she is the best girl you have ever met but you just have missed your chance by letting her go.

It is right now, right here, with you.

When you go out with friends for a movie, When you call your parents to let them know you are fine, When you fight with your best friend, When you miss someone badly and it hurts When you cry, When you smile When you love, You doubt if you are in the right place? You believe that your past is affecting your present too much? You want to yell out to the world but are afraid someone might actually hear you? You are trying to find bright colors in live but you can’t? You are thinking that some people in your life don’t belong there? You learned to hate? You wonder if true love exists? You are lost? Confused? Tired? You feel like nothing is right at the moment?

It is life, too…

You are sad? Scared? Upset? Worried? Smiling? Happy? In love? Wondering? Isn’t it life? “MIRACLE”. The one that we fail to see because we are too stressed out, analyzing, thinking, expecting. And while we are so much busy, it happens somewhere out there. It happens in silence, it stays unnoticed. We find it boring, we don’t see it as something extraordinary. And we are disappointed.

Maybe because life was just granted to us. But really… was it?

“We all, we all, are not born as Immortal, even we don't know what actually Immortal Is, We're in this universe like Puppet, Have to play only our Part, Have to act, like it is already defined.

“JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE AS YOU WANT, YOUR SOUL and INNER VOICE IS NOT DEFINED BY SOMEONE, IT IS DEFINED BY YOU MY FRIEND”.


Regards
Dhitendra
Keep Smilining :-)