63rd Blog - Part of Mistakes in LIFE

 

“Mistake”- the word that look like, invented to give a fear in mind. Like, “What happens to me, if I did this mistake, what happens to other, if I did that mistake.” but the more important question is “What, if you didn't make any mistake in your life”, According to Einstein “A Person who never made a mistake, never tried anything new”. But this word keeps a lot of fear, and forces to not make try anything new, while the problem is that, we all make mistakes.

Everyone makes mistakes, One mistake, Two mistakes, A dozen mistakes.

Today. Yesterday and Tomorrow.

We all make mistakes. Every minute of our life we take decisions, some of which turn out to be wrong. Often we are told to learn from others’ mistakes. But maybe we can learn from other mistake, beside we can learn more from our own mistakes. So you just go out there and make your own mistakes because you are left with no choice. Of course you will fall down, get hurt, cry, laugh, struggle, but you will always have to be get up and move on, because being defeat is not the worst of failures, not to have tried is the true failure. Life is too short to stay there down and feel regret for those mistakes. You just believe that everything happens for a reason. And if you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it’d be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. It’s not what you look like or what you have. But it’s the little things in life that make it all worth while.

Watching the sunset and the moon rise. Spending time doing crazy things with your friends. Random trips in the middle of the night. Enjoying the beautiful mountains. Drinking a nice cold glass of lemonade on a hot summer day, or a hot cup of cocoa on a cold winter day. Catching a snowflake on your tongue. Dancing in the rain. Taking bubble baths. Singing as if no one could hear you. Staying up all night with your best friend. Laughing. Falling in love. Conquering your biggest fear. Watching the waves crash into the sand.

Life doesn't always give second chances, take the first one. Live it to the fullest with no regrets from yesterday. Maybe you will make your own mistakes but then you will never regret about things you missed out doing. Just remember that you only get one shot. One shot at this day, One shot at this minute, One shot at this age, One shot at this life. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment, and take from it everything you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

So what does one mistake mean if you see the big picture? The picture of your own life!!

Consult not your fears, but your hopes and your dreams, think not about your frustrations, but about your unfulfilled potential. Concern yourself not with what you tries and failed in, but with what it is possible for you to do. Everything that you live through helps to make you the person you are now. -------------------- Pope John.

Regards

Dhitendra

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62nd blog - माँ, मैं कहते कहते सब रुक जाती हूँ ,

माँ, मैं कहते कहते सब रुक जाती हूँ ,

माँ, मैं सहते सहते सब चुप हो जाती हूँ,

किसकी नजरों से बचाऊ अपनी लाज यहाँ,

कहाँ जाऊ मैं, महफूज़ हो जाऊ जहाँ,

इस भरी महफ़िल में रोज लुटती रहती हूँ,

दर्द का एक सैलाब लिए बस घुटती रहती हूँ ,

कभी अपनों ने, कभी परायों ने देखा उन नजरों से,

चाहकर भी ना बच पाई उन सबके कहरों से,

हाथों को जोड़े बस तड़पती ही रहती हूँ,

मैं जननी, मैं पालनहारी, क्यों इस पीड़ा को सहती रहती हूँ,

है कोई यहाँ जो मेरे दर्द को समझता हो,

मेरी खोई इज्ज़त लौटने को भी कभी तड़पता हो,

है कोई यहाँ जो मुझको फिर से जीना सीखा दे,

है कोई जो खोया हुआ अस्तित्व मेरा फिर से मुझको लौटा दे.

One more Rape Incident, in the Capital of INDIA, Such incidents make me feel first ashamed to be a “HUMAN BEING” and then ashamed to be a “MAN”, first ashamed to born in this “WORLD” and then to born in this “COUNTRY”, Where female are treated as “Goddess” and worshiped in multiple appearances, beside they're now asking for her “RESPECT” everywhere. In a country where females are supposedly honorable as mothers and prayed in the form of goddess, in a country where people fast and seek blessings from little girls during Navratri pooja, in the same country females are forced to live a shielded life. A void feeling, a feeling of embarrassment, a feeling of fear, a feeling of being petite, a feeling of being weak, and an unspeakable shame! Shame on the country where we live, shame on the society where we sustain and shame on the mindset of people. I already watched the movie “A Wednesday” thousand times, and even I reminded every meaningful lines and words of that movie, here one comes fit is “Kyon hum log kuch kar nahi paate, Kyon hum log hamesha itne lachar ho jate hai, kyon hum log intezaar karte hai, ki ye kab hum ya hamare logo ke saath ho” because we are very “USED TO”, We are good to forget the things, in-spite to make change the situation.

She was just a five year girl, with no skimpy clothes, no seducing traits, was not roaming with another boy in late night, was not having affair with anyone, was not in condition of drunk, was not in any late night parties, she was just an innocent five year old girl, In an age where she was meant to be playing with toys, she instead got used as a sex toy....!! there are thousand of cases we hear and read Over news channels and newspapers, every-time media involved in those newses and float them like an awarding ceremony, This is the condition of the CAPITAL of our country and also the whole of India, which is both being ruled unfortunately by a woman, where the women commission head have had not enough time to listen the words of her own generation, because she is going to miss a blushing party. But here the question arise Who truly is responsible for all of that....? The twenty-two year old guy from Bihar, Manoj who did this to the little girl, or the cops who tried to settle the case showing their inhuman nature, or the current government who is busy in corruption and enjoying all this so they get more time for corruption while people like us are busy in the protest or the society that are used to forget the things too easily, or the educated person like we, don't have time, or the thinking that we had. Unfortunately every reason is correct, not only this only, beside there are “N” Number of reason, Its being a shame that age is no bar in a sick society like ours.!!

Most Important question leaves behind is “WHAT WAS HER MISTAKE”. what about that innocent five year girl? She is traumatized for the rest of her life with such acts of brutality!.

My heart wants to prays for her, My heart wants to pray to give the strength to stand up once again in her life, but “IS THAT TOO ENOUGH”. No Its not, “WE ALL ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS, WE ALL, NOT ONLY A SINGLE PERSON”.

Before being anything, First we need to be a good “HUMAN BEING”, somehow we are failed everywhere.

Regards

Dhitendra

Keep Smiling :-)