The "YES" and The "NO"

Date-21st Sep. 2011, 11 PM

Nation comes first, Parents at second place, Siblings at third place and a spot for friends are after all them, means last and the uttermost spot of life.

It was rainy season, outside atmosphere was awesome, a fragrance of season was flowing in the air, I was seated silently with closed eyes on my terrace thinking deeply – “Why life sometime was so much unpredictable, When we go through tough times in our lives, sometimes, we wish we could forget how to feel for a moment, so we won't get hurt, so we won't cry, so we won't feel empty, so we won't be sad, yet we won't be happy, we won't be glad, we won't be joyful, we wouldn't smile if we do not feel at all. Our senses tell us that, in our life there are always two things we have to understand as we live, The "Yes" and the "No".

We only have two choices in this life either have to sacrifice with the reasons and don’t ever complaint about that what we're unable to make change and other is a attitude to never, never and never give up, ready to change the situations where all the conditions are against, every encounter have to faced, every decision we make was tough, every task we did looks Impossible, the only self strength is your sole partner, the only willpower is your furious weapon and the only destination is to achieve something beyond.

Every such experience has required you a "Yes" and a "No" before you have gone through it.

This is a matter of knowing what to say "Yes" to and which to say "No" to, Life is a conflict of one and another, replica of each other, only two sides exist. The "Yes" and the "No", of all of which, we get to, learn.

We fail, fail again, and fail better.

We succeed, succeed again, and succeed better.

Life is a medley song, continuous, could be a sad love song, a happy head banging body shaking beat or a sincere vocal, Your "Yes" and "No" would not stop the song, but would determine the length of time you stay to each song part that you have. Your decision decides how long the sad love song plays in the air for you, whether you will transition to a head banging rock n roll to the beat of a high way drive, or you'll transition it to a cracking beat of trance that will make you take a break for some time, or transition to a happy thankful song for having gone through that part of your medley. And in as much, please do not stop your medley, Just let it be, Do not stop it, that is the best part to live, the best part to enjoy. for there are also others that want to hear yours and be happy to play their own in relation to your melody.

For every "Yes" and "No", there comes acceptance and appreciation. We have to feel both, say "Yes" to feel both. It's a great feeling. When we accept things while you did our best to keep them the best way we want them to. Being objective in the sense that you go for the common good. No selfishness. No lies. Open arms and open heart, an accepting mind for thoughts for the benefit of most.

Learning to appreciate and doing it. Appreciation of things that may come as you think of possibilities or possible outcomes of what you'd say a "Yes" and a "No" to. Appreciation of things you have accepted. Appreciation of the learning you gained. Appreciation of your life and how it relates with others.

Remember that we live not to be happy, but to be worthy of happiness.
If you think that you live to be happy, selfishness may come over you, greed over everything that you think may make you happy. It's a "No" for that. But a "Yes" to being worthy of happiness.

How do you know that you are worthy of happiness?

It's how you keep what you have, make it grow without taking from another. Living a fair life in the sense that you won't walk on another's shadow. To each his own. It's yours when it's yours. No greed. No lies.

Suffering is just in the mind.

Pain is a feeling we can get by and overcome with decisions that will make things better for us.

Know that nothing is perfect but there is always something better. But when you put in mind that you already have the best, you won't have to look for something else, It's always a "yes" and a "no".

It was late night enough; sleep is still miles away from my eyes, my memories got reloaded by few recent old memories which had a lot bang on my thinking’s.

                                                                                                     ....to be continued....!!

"Life is a very beautiful song, live life as a special it is no any mystery to be solved, rather an adventure to lived, live each day as a new life, as if you have been given a second chance, breathe deeply, feel and wonder what's around all of you.

Regards

Dhitendra

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